BOYS TO MEN

Special Wisdom of the Day for MEN:

"Boys" can only think so shallow to harass a women sexually. They only touch the mere surface of the woman, too concerned with the physical and like a child attached to their mother, cling to her with needy tendencies. They are stuck so far inside their male ego they have not only very little clue of what a woman truly wants, but what is really important to them for happiness. A boy cares not to evaluate himself, nor cares to understand if he wishes to enjoy the beauty of the lake he must learn to swim regardless if he wants to get wet or not.

A Man understands touching a woman's soul is of far greater importance than touching her physically. Far more important than showering her with gifts. And knows that every woman is the same in kind, but different in degree. Each a flower in different stages of blossom. That individualized care is needed to reach each one according to where she is at during the moment in life. That many times, like everyone, what she thinks she wants is not really WHAT she wants. And knows that he can only unveil it through love and never with positive male aggression and criticism. And the prerequisite for knowing all of this, and building this wisdom, is that he must be a MAN, for a boy is incapable of securing this wisdom. He must be secure and confident standing alone before he can secure the true love and affection of another that goes beyond the "animalistic ideal" many have of love. Understand this and you can master charisma.

-Gallagher